The first time I had a moment of clarity was when I realized that i didn't need to be in a relationship to feel like a complete person. There was a time when I thought that in order to have a wonderful life I needed to be with someone so that I wouldn't have to deal with life alone. The fact is that from as far back as I could remember everything I thought I couldn't do I actually already was. I thought I would never be able to get around alone because I couldn't drive, so I learned how to drive. Moments that I thought having an extra income in the house would be great, I just went ahead and got myself promoted. When I thought that I wouldn't be able to balance bills and work I realized I had been doing it all along and guess what by myself.
I thought I need a guy to tell me that I was amazing and wonderful but the fact was that I had to believe it for myself. Why should someone else think about me if I don't. I know that I am a wonderful person. I know that I am charming and witty and that sometimes I can be a dork. I am aware of the fact that I have a big heart and while in the past few have seen that it's okay. When I finally meet that guy he is going to see those qualitites in me. I am not going to have to tell him hey look at me. I won't have to say why can't you see that what you need is right here with me. Truth is when a man sees it he will let you know. Don't be discouraged if one or two don't. Think of it this way I rather wait for the guy who won't be able to take his eyes off of me. I rather wait for the guy who will know that I love him for him. I rather wait for that guy who won't be able to wait to talk to me. Why wait? for the simple reason is that when you are rushing to be with someone who partially meets your standards the one that qualifies will walk away.
If you are there waiting for a guy to see you that way and it's getting to the point you are feeling down because he doesn't just walk away. What one man ignores another man will cherish. So be patient and wait. I know that it is easier said than done, I have gone through it myself but so worth the wait.
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