Their story was like a page out of book you never want to put down. They lost contact and many years later they found each other. That day she got the phone call she thought everything was falling into place. The man of her dreams had finally found her. He says all the right things and all her friends are taken in by his charisma. He has this smile that makes you melt. When he kisses your lips your heart just melts. Those are the moments when he is nice. There is the other side to him. The side that says mean and hurtful things. The side that rejects you and then makes you feel like it is all your fault. You are never thin or thick enough. Your hair is never long enough. Promises are broken and words hold no meaning. You think to yourself maybe if you just hang on a little longer that it will work itself out. You think if I am a little more understanding everything will be okay. In time you see that they don't work out. He finds attention somewhere else. He tells you that he feels he is missing something else and that you don't fit that picture of his perfect woman. You feel like you have been kicked while you are down. You have no where to turn and you wonder how did it get like this.

It's simple really, you chose not to see that he was still the same person. He was still that guy that was so full of himself. You look back and you ask yourself why would you want to be with someone who never meets you half way. You have to see that anyone who doesn't appreciate you is not worth your time. Anyone who would risk all that you have put into the relationship for something meaningless is not worth it. Too many times we are ready to accept anything for the sake of not being alone. For all you know the one person that is meant for you is wondering to themselves where is their other half. We need to take the time and figure out who we are so that we wont be blind when that person comes along and is using use. Anyone who will cheat and say things to hurt you doesn't love you. Yes there are those few instances when someone does change but that is because they have matured. In this day and age people don't look to better themselves or change foolish ways. In their eyes they are already perfect. Don't get caught up in the pretty smile and smooth talk because before you know it he is not the person you thought.